My expierience is that if you fail at Wow you win at life.
I tell my job to make room for my raid nights, I lose money. Several Guild Leaders have often been overburden and forced into early retirement (AKA fired/unemployed) and constantly talk about failed relationships in chat through several guilds I have been in. On several breaks from wow I have used the time to hit the Gym, afford travel, learn lucrative skills and software for my career as well as visit actual theme parks with real people.
Living up to a now 30 something recluse who judges my performance like the guy from office space is kinda lame. High numers on dps charts are one thing but just try and remember ... its just a game.