Originally Posted by
Vellithe
At the same time there's a lack of people to do things with, there's a huge overpopulation in this game, just the wrong kinds of people.i
Players often avoid "wasting time" helping or interacting with most other players because they assume that player will never amount to anything and that there's no point in helping/interacting with him. The few times that you legit try to help someone, they'll either blow up at you or say "oh okay" and then disappear forever, making the whole thing meaningless for your own future.
For instance, your question could easily be answered through common sense if you only had a clue about the game, which only indicates further that they should avoid losing time with you. I'm not saying I agree, it's just that it is what it is. (The answer, btw, is "It doesn't matter. Is your performance, the one that you should be studying up on, good enough for the fights? That's what matters.", AP will certainly help where your skill/gear is lacking, however, and is outright mandatory for those participating in the race, but not very important for anyone else, save a few specs)
In TBC and before realms getting all connect-y we all had so few people to count on we just had to take a chance every time we met a stranger. Even if this stranger turned out to be garbage, maybe we could forge him into something better in the future and we need his help as much as he needs ours. Now most of the game is either solo-able or the tools can make up for the lack of good players around, so there's no reason to help someone get good - either they're already good or you don't want them.
Which of course doesn't work really well when you're trying to raid mythic on a bad realm, but at the same time it's just too much to ask a guild to "forge" someone from LFR Hero to Mythic Raider, particularly since most people will just feel they're good enough at some point and either drop their sub or drop the guild. My own guild has nearly became a "heroic rush" guild at this point, but we don't even get paid for it, the trials just get the loot and the AotC and then leave. Truly a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.