Sorry if I gave the wrong impression. I knew you were agreeing with me and I was specifically quoting your post to get a point across since you are a perfect example. You said you met a woman with a kid and there are many people in this thread saying that raising a rapist's kid is the same thing as finding a girl who already had a kid. But you, as somebody who has met a lady with a previous child, has stated that it isn't the case. That adopting a child who is put inside your woman while you two were together is something that's very different.