wowprogress.com search for peoples name. bam.
in a guild you do check up on your guildies.
if 19 people does it, you pretty much would find the 20th to do it as well, if this is something agreed on. Or else, he is just dissapointing. If you don't wanna show equal amount of commitment as your raiding team does, then perhaps that place isn't for you. It is not a rule that people create on 1 day, you ask everyone, and if everyone agrees, then you agree. That is taking promises, and conversation serious. if its too much commitment, or if its too much serious for your level, then why are you there to begin with? it is not like you are forced to play at a certain place like this? you choose yourself to do so.
"nobody cares with 35 because everyone who agrees to commit reached 54 before nighthold released, so who cares with 35 traits?"
keep in mind this is again in a scenario where people agreed on. which funny enough I have to repeat 9999999999999999999 times.