Originally Posted by
Katchii
Wasn't trying to excuse a terrible community for being terrible, was just making a statement about the reality of online gaming in general; assholes exist and you'll find them everywhere, you have to try and find a way to not let those assholes deter you from what you want/ like. Understanding that both good and bad people exist in an online community and accepting that you'll definitely run into the bad ones while looking for the good ones helps in this situation.
If I enjoy the game enough I'll spend the time to try and find a good community even when I'm bombarded by shit faced assholes who just can't help but get in their own way. If a few assholes deter you from playing, you probably didn't like the game enough anyway. I also understand that in MMO's specifically, the game itself is generally not the #1 reason people stay, it's the community they're a part of... that's honestly why I've found more of a home in FFXIV than in any other MMO I've played, I have a fantastically fun and helpful Free Company.
I agree with you though, in a game like Wildstar that desperately needs new players having a high population of toxic people isn't doing it any favors as far as keeping it around.