I am giving you arguments yet you choose to ignore them
First things first.
I am not calling you a racist out of spite nor as a way to shortcircuit debate. I think we all are a little racist inside, probably myself included even though I try not to. As I said I think racism/xenophobia is an inherent trait in humanity and no governmental decision would change that - it is up to you to feel attacked by me using a word. It's not something I consider inherently bad as if I would, I would lose faith in humanity pretty fast!
Nor am I calling you dumb (please show me) - thinking for a second does not imply I consider you dumb - but that this issue is not something that politics will solve. It's an issue that politics can't solve.
And because I am a decent human being and I feel everyone that wants to come here and build a better life (within our societies standards, of course!) should be welcome. Regardless of race or ethnic group. Let alone Syrians - since we brought that upon ourselves. (and before you point it out, with WE I mean the west, not the Netherlands in particular)
I mean if you'd be born in a piss poor country you would also strive for a better life somewhere else. And would be glad if other countries would offer you that opportunity.
I have given you plenty of examples to show that your view of immigrants might not be exactly the truth.
But if you want a very specific example - I am now coaching a guy whose family immigrated here from Algeria. Speaks fluent Dutch (his parents a little less, but he helps them with it) and has been trying to land a job ever since he graduated last year. In the past 12 months he has send over 300 job applications, roughly 20 got answered negatively, and ALL the others were simply never replied to at all.
He has the papers, he has the education, speaks the language, likes "kroketten" and dutch cheese, and if not for the color of his skin and his name, you would never guess he is not native Dutch.
Needless to say he is very frustrated and had a different view of our great western society. And that is one guy out of hundreds that I also had the pleasure to help. The forums here wouldn't be big enough to list them all.