The notion that bringing democrasy to these countries has been ignorant, well meant - but entirely ignorant of their culture.. just looking at irak (first goverment that was put in power completely favored Jalal Talabani's (the president) 'tribe' and religious affiliation (sunni's) when it came to appointing govermental positions of influence. This on its own indirectly lead to the rise of isis (when isis was starting out the army surrendered their bases an resources because the soldiers didnt feel connected to the goverment/country). So at the very least it's a mixture of western influence and tribal thinking.
Libya is a similiar situation, khadaffi
did some truly fantastic things there, but he wanted an african currency based on gold; the gold dinar (should look it up if you're interested in the petro-dollar theory) . He wanted this because american debt leads to a constant devaluaing of the dollar (something which is entirely against america's promise when the world agreed to trade in dollars after WW II, but that's another story. ). I know it sounds a tad tin-foil hatty but that's the only sane reason I can think of looking at the libya assault. I mean that place has gone from a thriving muslim country to a total hellhole mired in tribal strife, you won't see any of that on the news however.., I guess countries plunging into dissaray due to american intervention isn't a very interesting subject.
Anyway, back to the point I'm trying to make; it' would've been a mess without our help (regardless of us trying to arm islamists against the communist in the 70s, or us tolerating/not tolerating dictatorship rule. Heck, maybe it is all about destabilisng the region so iran/SA don't get too powerfull with all the oil they're floating on.. I really don't know how far that rabbit hole goes. But obviously, we haven't improved the situation .. like.. at all, either.