Escorts - Yay or Nay?

[Deathknightish]

Nah i would never use one. If you are so sad and pathetic that the only way you get to experience sex is by paying someone for it, it guess thats ok if its consensual. Id recommend working on yourself and actually trying to become desirable for a few years before succumbing to that though. I'd just hate to be with someone afterwards and have to tell them about something as low as that, or having to keep it a secret.

It's a myth that it's mainly lonely men who can't get laid who visit escorts.
I have a friend who used to escort and she said that only around 20% of her clients were people who couldn't find a girl to sleep with the normal way. The rest were either married men, who didn't get to experiment with their partner, or people with busy lives who have no time for relationships, or even try their luck at the club, but still want to get it on.

[Ahovv]

There are other things I'd rather spend my money on.

edit: Also, it's funny that somehow this thread remains open but drug-threads get closed.

[Deleted]

Wondering how many of you guys/girls have ever used an escort agency or contacted a standalone escort.

Personally I have used escorts (and probably will do in the future too), even while being in a relationship. They are a great way of discovering and facilitating your desires, kinks and fantasies without damaging your relationship. Lots of escorts are happy working with men/women in relationships too.

Anyone else share the same views/opinions?

Been to two different prostitutes, three times in total. It's hard to say whether I regret it or not. On the one hand, it was a good feeling getting my dick sucked for the first time. It was good to break down that barrier, and it was long overdue. On the other hand, going to a prostitute kinda feels like cheating, like you didn't earn it. And you'll soon realize the affection isn't real, so for me, it just lost its appeal. Plus it's expensive to get a real good-looking one. So overall, I'd say, if you're quite old and never had sex, going to a prostitute can't hurt. But in the end, you still have to learn how to pick up girls. You won't be happy with just prostitutes.

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seeing an escort this weekend for some bdsm and sissification play.

lol wtf man

[Jin]

I have used the service of a escort since I was 27 years old, that was also my first time, I realised that with my chronic illness, the damage it caused I would not find or come across a women in a long time, if ever, so I decided to dive into this world instead so I could still have the sexual part in my life but no attachments.
One of the major criteria was for me that she had done it for a while and independent, so no agency behind it. (of course you can't really know 100% for sure but still)

SO far zero regrets and they are probably more healthy and clean then I am!

Would I stop if I do find a lass, yea probably, do I judge those that still go to escorts that are in a relationship? Not if it is purely based on lust, lust =/= love.

[Deleted]

Wondering how many of you guys/girls have ever used an escort agency or contacted a standalone escort.

Personally I have used escorts (and probably will do in the future too), even while being in a relationship. They are a great way of discovering and facilitating your desires, kinks and fantasies without damaging your relationship. Lots of escorts are happy working with men/women in relationships too.

Anyone else share the same views/opinions?

Escort is just a fancy way of saying hooker. Sure - if you're both adult and agree on what's happening, go for it. However, I do find it reprehensible that you'd do it while in a relationship unless you have some kind of arrangement with your partner. The base expectation in relationship in western societies is of exclusivity and fidelity, and your partner might have a very different view on the topic.

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Would I stop if I do find a lass, yea probably, do I judge those that still go to escorts that are in a relationship? Not if it is purely based on lust, lust =/= love.

Lust does not equal love, but most people go into a relationship with expectations of their partner being faithful, and if you know that you won't be living up to your partners expectations, you should at least be honest. The partner might have serious reservations about it and might want to use their time elsewhere instead. Yes, you should have the choice whether or not you want to bang hookers all day. Your partner should have the choice whether or not they want to stay with someone who bangs hookers all day. Fair enough?

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i think this topic is ill suited for this forum. From my post onwards (honestly didn't have time to read earlier stuff) - there is a vast majority who show that they have no idea nor any inkling on what the escort culture is or is actually like.


the whole point of an escort is that there is no bitching, there is no baggage.... you pay them essentially to leave, and it's on a per hour basis.


I've had a stressful week, a few too many patients who were more annoying than usual.... i want to DT and gag the shit out of a pretty blonde spinner with massive bolt ons and then proceed to do have MSOG + Greek. When I'm done using her i'd like to leave and never think about her again. Sometimes i'd like to be smothered by two. Other times, as age has caught up, I'd like to pay for 6-8 hours (or a weekend) and pop a few blue pills and just go nuts.

I can't do that with the wife (who may or may not have bolt ons as well), well i could but i may not have a wife afterwards. But i can with an escort. - so to sum up OP's question - this is why it's a yay for me.

In the end, i don't see it any different from hitting the links or going to a track day, it's just another avenue of relaxation for me. just like it is for some to get their nails done, or shopping etc etc

And your wife is ok with this?. And you are ok if your wife hires male escorts to "DT and gag the shit" out of her?

[anaxie]

And your wife is ok with this?. And you are ok if your wife hires male escorts to "DT and gag the shit" out of her?

people with your narrow mentality will never get it.

[Jin]

Escort is just a fancy way of saying hooker. Sure - if you're both adult and agree on what's happening, go for it. However, I do find it reprehensible that you'd do it while in a relationship unless you have some kind of arrangement with your partner. The base expectation in relationship in western societies is of exclusivity and fidelity, and your partner might have a very different view on the topic.

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Lust does not equal love, but most people go into a relationship with expectations of their partner being faithful, and if you know that you won't be living up to your partners expectations, you should at least be honest. The partner might have serious reservations about it and might want to use their time elsewhere instead. Yes, you should have the choice whether or not you want to bang hookers all day. Your partner should have the choice whether or not they want to stay with someone who bangs hookers all day. Fair enough?

Yup, i mean I would not see the escort if I know my partner wants a 1 on 1, but I cannot judge another person if they do if the other one does not know about it because it CAN actually help a relationship too, ignorance is a bliss for a reason, now if she finds out or he, and leaves him or her, then that is his or her fault and no one else to blame but themselves.

[THE Bigzoman]

Wondering how many of you guys/girls have ever used an escort agency or contacted a standalone escort.

Personally I have used escorts (and probably will do in the future too), even while being in a relationship. They are a great way of discovering and facilitating your desires, kinks and fantasies without damaging your relationship. Lots of escorts are happy working with men/women in relationships too.

Anyone else share the same views/opinions?

I have a few times over the last few years. I agree with your take on them.

The drawback is the time it takes to find a good one. But once you become a "regular", that's pussy pretty much on demand.

[Deleted]

i've used escorts for all of my marriage and many years prior.

The whole point isn't about dmg or no dmg. in my case, yes my SO doesn't know about it. But the reality is, I have some needs and desires that I don't think I would want to do to a loved one. But given the high pressure and anxiety of my profession, sometimes these fantasies are a very effective way to help me reset.

Mind you, i find a high end escort very different from a $150 prostitute offering BJs in a parking lot.


All i can say is, that paying that $800-1000/hr experience to fulfill my fantasy to relieve some stress is well worth it and has helped me further my profession.


Am i proud of it? Absolutely not, but i believe i feel that way due to social stigmas. Do i love my wife any less? No, but there are things that i like to do that i would not want to do to a loved one ....am i lucky i can afford to pay to fulfill these "desires" yes, and i am aware not everyone can do that.

People actually pay $1000 the fuck

[Floopa]

People actually pay $1000 the fuck

the most i've paid is £250/hr, but that was for a pre-op trans pornstar and incall.

[Deleted]

If you are lucky for the right one, otherwise you might end up with a dead fish in the bed. A good escort can learn you aswell. I visited few times a married and well preserved 41yo who did it mostly for fun and had only few customers per week. She was a great teacher too.

Don't settle for somebody who is sexually incompatible? My last boyfriend didn't want sex, I could've cheated but I opted in ending it because we wasn't sexually compatible

[THE Bigzoman]

Been to two different prostitutes, three times in total. It's hard to say whether I regret it or not. On the one hand, it was a good feeling getting my dick sucked for the first time. It was good to break down that barrier, and it was long overdue. On the other hand, going to a prostitute kinda feels like cheating, like you didn't earn it. And you'll soon realize the affection isn't real, so for me, it just lost its appeal. Plus it's expensive to get a real good-looking one. So overall, I'd say, if you're quite old and never had sex, going to a prostitute can't hurt. But in the end, you still have to learn how to pick up girls. You won't be happy with just prostitutes.

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lol wtf man

Depends on where you are.

I haven't really looked at the market where i'm at now, but I guarentee you I could find a nice thicky thick for 300/hour tops.

[Deleted]

seeing an escort this weekend for some bdsm and sissification play.

my gf wouldn't do that, but i'm into it.

escorts are great fellas/ladies, i honestly recommend them.

Is it a female or male escort

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I still rather find a fuck buddy that finds me physically attracted. Sleeping with somebody who isn't interested in me physically and just doing a job wouldn't help my depression

[Mormolyce]

No but I have occasionally considered it just out of interest.

[Floopa]

Is it a female or male escort

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I still rather find a fuck buddy that finds me physically attracted. Sleeping with somebody who isn't interested in me physically and just doing a job wouldn't help my depression

female escort.

[Enthusiastic Steward]

According to my workplace, they're required.

[shinyteethqt]

I have used the service of a escort since I was 27 years old, that was also my first time, I realised that with my chronic illness, the damage it caused I would not find or come across a women in a long time, if ever, so I decided to dive into this world instead so I could still have the sexual part in my life but no attachments.
One of the major criteria was for me that she had done it for a while and independent, so no agency behind it. (of course you can't really know 100% for sure but still)

SO far zero regrets and they are probably more healthy and clean then I am!

Would I stop if I do find a lass, yea probably, do I judge those that still go to escorts that are in a relationship? Not if it is purely based on lust, lust =/= love.

100% - thank you Jin, and i am sorry to hear about your chronic illness (unless it's a chronic need for sex lol)

And your wife is ok with this?. And you are ok if your wife hires male escorts to "DT and gag the shit" out of her?

people with your narrow mentality will never get it.

thanks @anaxie @FinalSquall - the point is if i didn't know about it, then what's the harm. More importantly, if she WAS into that, then i wouldn't pay for an escort most likely right? it's not so black and white.

People actually pay $1000 the fuck

why not? Madison Ivy charges 1700/hr. There are some that charge upwards of $3000/hour. There are agencies like Lourdes that cater specifically to that and require a pre-down payment.

[Deleted]

a nice thicky thick

We were talking about good-looking ones.

[Mistame]

We were talking about good-looking ones.

He likes them "thicc", which is fine. It's good someone likes the girls white guys don't.