People seem to assume the universe is just around our galaxy.
With our current technology we haven't even been able to go to a single one of our neighbor planets in person yet, our visual observation of the universe is but a minuscule version of our galaxy, the only real things we've seen are from very limited telescopes sent into space to view what we would call " the universe through a key hole".
It's not that we haven't found any intelligent species yet, we just aren't technologically advanced to find one, if there was at least 1 more intelligent species living on the outskirts of our galaxy, given that they are neither millions of years old and extinct already or severely underdeveloped ( primitive), we still wouldn't be able to contact them for another few thousand years given that we: a) don't become extinct ourselves b) keep advancing technologically as we have over the past two centuries.
And that is just our galaxy, imagine how many other galaxies there are out there.