So I know I'm not the most forgiving person on the planet. To me when people screw me over or disrespect me its indicative of their nature and I tend to make it clear to them they are no longer welcome in my company. I might be a bit too harsh but I'd like to hear the OTs talk about things their friends do that they forgive them for and maybe I'll be inspired.
To setup what I'm dealing with:
My roommate is a living mattress, he bangs about 3-5 guys a week and it irritates me a lot to the point that I told him no tricks on school nights as their noise wakes up the neighbor's children at 2am. Anyway he is a running joke amongst my friends and they understand my general ire with the guy. Anyway so one night my friends are hanging out in my house and suddenly one friend gets up and says he's "going outside". So after a bit we notice he's been gone a while and go to look for him, only to see him come out of my roommate's room after which he proceeds to brag to us at how impressed my roommate's "services" were and how he barely even had to wake him up. Needless to say our friends just stared at him and I told him to go home. He's not been welcome back since and he's apologized profusely and sometimes even drives to our house and sits out front in his car and cries because he wants to be back in our good graces so he can come up and see us. Yeah, its very odd. You don't have to comment on this situation but this is what I'm dealing with atm.