I don't wish to seem offensive dude, but when I describe average white american, I mean ones without any problems they have to deal with, real issues like the ones you mention and have to live with. I can speak about such examples to since I suffer from ocd, have diabetes and not exactly slim. So like you theres a lot of day to day shit to deal with. But what i mean are the average people without problems who don't have a clue what it means to live under a minority because of the average mans perception of them.