Oh and also....My ancestors had it hard so pity me!.....? I dont understand this attitude...sure certain ethnics have a harder starting point then others but for them to think that we are TRYING to hold them down is stupid...we provided the opportunity for them to be equal but I believe that it is counterproductive for us to pay for peoples ways through life because they are a certain ethnicity. Like an above poster posted it should be merit based.....if they think it is wrong that white male americans are born into their prosperity how is it right for them to get certain privileges for being born a minority?