Out of curiosity, what do you define as grind exactly? I tend to think of it is having to do an activity repetitively, an activity I wouldn't otherwise do, to get some desired reward. So for me GW2 has no grind because I have a wide variety of things to do which I enjoy to get to my goals.
Keeping up with the raiders, not a chore? Lol. It's the "chore" of esoteric tomes that burned me out on FF14 for the time being. It's that same feeling and a hundred other reasons I quit WoW. "I gotta do this, that, and this other today so I can keep up with my raiding folks". Zzzzzz...
AH, yea I get that. I mean yea I was sad I couldn't just shoot through the story like I wanted to and had to stop to get a mastery a couple of times but honestly getting the XP isn't difficult. Plus being able to use all the XP buffs makes a huge difference. I went back and played the the parts of the story up to where I had to stop on another character and did a bunch of events in the zones, which on the whole I am REALLY enjoying the events in the zones. Also got a bunch of friends together to do Hero Challenges, you really do get a good chunk of XP for those. And adventures are nice as well, though I can't remember for sure if I got XP for those or not.
I guess I just really benefit from the fact I really like all the PvE activities so none of it feels grindy to me.
Least I didn't have to hit the AH to finish leveling all my profs in WoW like I had to do in GW2 by spending 143g to finish cooking, LW, AS, and JC. Basically, te lowered recipes are too mat intensive for my tastes and are unrealistic to farm without wasting a fuck ton of time. So yes, I like the shitty WoW system more even knowing its complete shit.
It really isn't that much of a chore at all. Sounds like you just give up too easily tbh. Also, seeing how raiders (hardcore ones that is) are an extreme minority in FFXIV, who said you had to keep up with them? Sounds like you're just creating problems for yourself to make excuses.
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