If your girlfriend keeps getting jealous about you spending time with your female best friend it's because she has feelings towards her own and assumes it's the same for you and your best friend.
Learned that the hard way.
/endrant
If your girlfriend keeps getting jealous about you spending time with your female best friend it's because she has feelings towards her own and assumes it's the same for you and your best friend.
Learned that the hard way.
/endrant
Just spend more time with her, she'll be fine. Are you sure she actually has feelings for her best friend? Usually there's a reason why two people have friend zoned one another.
Cringe x100
Probably better keeping this to yourself
There's not a lot of information from your part, but the only bit of information you have is anecdotal at best. You might even be the jealous one.
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I've never tried to date a girl with a "close male friend", and this is why. One of them is always going to want more, and it's a cute game for them to play while dating other people... AKA cheating.
Sorry dude. Best advice I've got is not to, "just spend more time with her." Wipe that bitch off the bottom of your shoe.
Your unique and shitty experience is in no way a universal truth for all to worry about or deal with. This just in people are individuals and don't always act the same as your one past experience played out.
Last edited by Alvito; 2015-12-14 at 12:03 AM.
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I don't know why guys always assume that when a girl is around another guy that she's obviously letting him put his dick in her. >.> I think you two should have a talk about what is and is not OK in regards to friendships with the opposite sex, this is apparently causing some issues for you two and there is no reason for it to be causing problems. This is leading further down a road of passive aggressiveness unless it is nipped in the bud, a heart to heart talk will hopefully help.
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Or she wants to bang your best friend. Simple solution; threeway.
Christ overreaction.
OP stated that his girlfriend was jealous that he was spending time with his best female friend. Then OP states that he is jealous because she spent a day with her best male friend instead of him. You don't think that she might possibly be pissed about the fact that the OP is spending time with his female friends instead of her?