Brotip about jealousy

[pateuvasiliu]

If your girlfriend keeps getting jealous about you spending time with your female best friend it's because she has feelings towards her own and assumes it's the same for you and your best friend.

Learned that the hard way.

/endrant

[Celista]

Just spend more time with her, she'll be fine. Are you sure she actually has feelings for her best friend? Usually there's a reason why two people have friend zoned one another.

[pateuvasiliu]

Just spend more time with her, she'll be fine. Are you sure she actually has feelings for her best friend? Usually there's a reason why two people have friend zoned one another.

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

[Deleted]

Cringe x100

Probably better keeping this to yourself

[Zandalarian Paladin]

There's not a lot of information from your part, but the only bit of information you have is anecdotal at best. You might even be the jealous one.

[Daerio]

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

I've never tried to date a girl with a "close male friend", and this is why. One of them is always going to want more, and it's a cute game for them to play while dating other people... AKA cheating.

Sorry dude. Best advice I've got is not to, "just spend more time with her." Wipe that bitch off the bottom of your shoe.

[Alvito]

Your unique and shitty experience is in no way a universal truth for all to worry about or deal with. This just in people are individuals and don't always act the same as your one past experience played out.

[roflwaffle]

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

... ouch, that's rough

[Celista]

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

I don't know why guys always assume that when a girl is around another guy that she's obviously letting him put his dick in her. >.> I think you two should have a talk about what is and is not OK in regards to friendships with the opposite sex, this is apparently causing some issues for you two and there is no reason for it to be causing problems. This is leading further down a road of passive aggressiveness unless it is nipped in the bud, a heart to heart talk will hopefully help.

[Venant]

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

You must have some other things to base your suspicions on besides her not replying to a text and a selfie, unless their selfie was taken with them both in bed.

[Daerio]

I don't know why guys always assume that when a girl is around another guy that she's obviously letting him put his dick in her. >.>

Denial of this magnitude isn't healthy for anyone, male or female.

[Shadowmelded]

Or she wants to bang your best friend. Simple solution; threeway.

[Celista]

Sorry dude. Best advice I've got is not to, "just spend more time with her." Wipe that bitch off the bottom of your shoe.

Christ overreaction.

OP stated that his girlfriend was jealous that he was spending time with his best female friend. Then OP states that he is jealous because she spent a day with her best male friend instead of him. You don't think that she might possibly be pissed about the fact that the OP is spending time with his female friends instead of her?

[Moralgy]

I'm so confused right now, wat is going on.

[Celista]

Denial of this magnitude isn't healthy for anyone, male or female.

Listen as a female I am telling you that women aren't sleeping with their male friends 99% of the time. Their male friends are in the friend zone for a reason.

[Celista]

There's not a lot of information from your part, but the only bit of information you have is anecdotal at best. You might even be the jealous one.

I think they're both jealous and she's trying to retaliate for his behavior (spending time with other women) by making him jealous. And she obviously succeeded, hence this thread's existence.

[Orange Joe]

Christ overreaction.

OP stated that his girlfriend was jealous that he was spending time with his best female friend. Then OP states that he is jealous because she spent a day with her best male friend instead of him. You don't think that she might possibly be pissed about the fact that the OP is spending time with his female friends instead of her?

op stated he has a selfie of them getting a room together....

[Celista]

op stated he has a selfie of them getting a room together....

No he said she "checked in" on FB by posting a selfie. That's not "getting a room together".

[Iflash]

Considering I texted her in the morning about meeting up on Wednesday ( I have a free day and I'd see her during her breaks between courses ) and she hasn't answered and this evening I saw her checking in in a selfie with him I think it's pretty clear what happened.

I wonder if the irony of your own assumptions is lost here.

[Fencers]

If your girlfriend keeps getting jealous about you spending time with your female best friend it's because she has feelings towards her own and assumes it's the same for you and your best friend.

Learned that the hard way.

/endrant

Seems kinda dubious advice or "tip". It can be simply that one wants to spent more time with their significant other.