Are Purity and Virginity Overrated Virtues?

[nanook12]

I feel like some girls place way too much value on purity and virginity. For example, I have a christian friend at uni who is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage, but sometimes I feel like she is robbing experience from herself. I mean she hasn't even explored that whole side of herself. I can't even talk about anything of sexual nature with other friends when she is around because she gets weirded out offended. Do women place too much value on virginity? Is virginity overrated in the case of women?

[Medusa Cascade]

Without virgins I'd have no sacrifices

[nanook12]

As a guy who doesn't get laid as much as he wants to...I bet you do ^^

And the low shots begin.

[Self Inflicted Wounds]

I don't think its a women thing exclusively. I think men also value this for some reason. I see posts sometimes talking about sexuality.. women (and men) being accused of wasting themselves and being less valuable because they have multiple sex partners.

[GennGreymane]

Yes
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[nanook12]

I don't think its a women thing exclusively. I think men also value this for some reason. I see posts sometimes talking about sexuality.. women (and men) being accused of wasting themselves and being less valuable because they have multiple sex partners.

I agree. Kinda silly.

[Serpha]

I feel like some girls place way too much value on purity and virginity. For example, I have a christian friend at uni who is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage, but sometimes I feel like she is robbing experience from herself. I mean she hasn't even explored that whole side of herself. I can't even talk about anything of sexual nature with other friends when she is around because she gets weirded out offended. Do women place too much value on virginity? Is virginity overrated in the case of women?

Seems like you and people like you pay too much attention to sex, life doesn't revolve around sex, stop talking about it so much.

[nanook12]

Seems like you and people like you pay too much attention to sex, life doesn't revolve around sex, stop talking about it so much.

It is a part of life. I could care less about offending your pureness.

[Banshee Prince]

I abstained from sex until my first marriage because of my devout Christian values.

And also because I thought my dick would split like a banana due to my phimosis.

[munkeyinorbit]

I feel like some girls place way too much value on purity and virginity. For example, I have a christian friend at uni who is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage, but sometimes I feel like she is robbing experience from herself. I mean she hasn't even explored that whole side of herself. I can't even talk about anything of sexual nature with other friends when she is around because she gets weirded out offended. Do women place too much value on virginity? Is virginity overrated in the case of women?

So you want to fuck your friend. She is probably using the virginity card because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. As for women putting too much value on virginity? Why the fuck not. It's their bodies, not yours. Or would you rather go back to the 50s where men owned women?

I'm no anthopoligism expert but as far as I can see virginity as a virtual is a male thing. Back in the olden days, men valued women who still had their virginity while simultaneously trying to fuck anything that didn't have a dick. It was OK if other women were not virgins but their woman (or the ones they knew the last name of) had to be one before marriage.

[Serpha]

It is a part of life. Why ignore it because offends your naive virgin ears and eyes?

What does that even mean? Do you talk about it 24/7 and fuck in public as much? Are you retarded?

[nanook12]

So you want to fuck your friend. She is probably using the virginity card because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. As for women putting too much value on virginity? Why the fuck not. It's their bodies, not yours. Or would you rather go back to the 50s where men owned women?

I'm no anthopoligism expert but as far as I can see virginity as a virtual is a male thing. Back in the olden days, men valued women who still had their virginity while simultaneously trying to fuck anything that didn't have a dick. It was OK if other women were not virgins but their woman (or the ones they knew the last name of) had to be one before marriage.

For god sakes why? Why marry a person that is going to be super shy, apprehensive, and generally lay there like a dead fish? Sounds like a snore fest to me. I would rather marry a person that is enthusiastic,playful and knows herself in that respect. Which all comes from having some experience.

[Virs]

Purity and virginity is overvalued by both men and women. The idea that you sully yourself if you have sex, that's just not healthy.
Having sex because you have something to prove, because you want to fit in, purely because you feel like thats all you're good for: that's bad. Those are bad reasons that push some people to have sex.
But wanting to have sex simply because you WANT to? Because you enjoy it? Because you know people you like spending time with? Don't limit yourself, do it.

If someone TRULY wants to stay a virgin for their own reasons, that's fine. But people must decide to have sex, or not have sex, because that's what THEY decided. Not because we decided they're worth less than us if they have more sex than us.

[Deleted]

Underrated if anything.


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There's a reason promiscuity and the likes are being shoved down your throat by (((various sources))).

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[Deleted]

I feel like some girls place way too much value on purity and virginity. For example, I have a christian friend at uni who is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage, but sometimes I feel like she is robbing experience from herself.

Which is her business, and her business alone. If she considers it the right thing to do, that's her choice.

[Jotaux]

For god sakes why? Why marry a person that is going to be super shy, apprehensive, and generally lay there like a dead fish? Sounds like a snore fest to me.

Because you love them?

[Deleted]

Her life /shrug

[Mihalik]

Virginity is a social construct (not like the way some SWJs talk about biological gender being a social construct, but it is literally a social construct in a sense, that there is no way you can biologically and consistently tell whether someone is a virgin or not). Thus its value and the value of "purity" (whatever the fuck that suppose to mean) is subjective.

If someone wants to have sex good on them, if they don't also good on them. But subjectively speaking for me a girl's ability to give a quality BJ and her knowledge understanding of her own body and ability to communicate what she likes and doesn't is exponentially more valuable than some "First" thing.

Also OP, did your sister blew you off with the virginity excuse after you exhausted the "incest is harmless" argument with her?

[Serpha]

Virginity is a social construct (not like the way some SWJs talk about biological gender being a social construct, but it is literally a social construct in a sense, that there is no way you can biologically and consistently tell whether someone is a virgin or not). Thus its value and the value of "purity" (whatever the fuck that suppose to mean) is subjective.

If someone wants to have sex good on them, if they don't also good on them. But subjectively speaking for me a girl's ability to give a quality BJ and her knowledge understanding of her own body and ability to communicate what she likes and doesn't is exponentially more valuable than some "First" thing.

Also OP, did your sister blew you off with the virginity excuse after you exhausted the "incest is harmless" argument with her?

You could also take time with quality partner to explore that subject, instead of getting one that took an army of cocks!

[Rudkobing]

Not really. I can get a REAL good price for one of my soon to be a ho's virginity. Also, I get a really good price for supplying those Muslims 7 virgins.