Pro-tip: Don't treat others like shit.
Choosing to harm someone that has done no harm makes you look lame as hell and can ruin the lives others. Don't be a horrible human being.
Pro-tip: Don't treat others like shit.
Choosing to harm someone that has done no harm makes you look lame as hell and can ruin the lives others. Don't be a horrible human being.
Can't really get a personality map out of a picture...you know, just looking at it. Yes, she has an ugly personality, but that doesn't have anything to do with her body size... I was only meaning her outward physical appearance...
What even...
And hygiene...er, ok, and you know this...how? Dancers usually keep their hyegiene fairly well...otherwise they don't have an audience...outside of fetishes...and I doubt burlesque dancing is a fetish...
Third; BUrlesque doesn't have much to do with weight, it is a performance...style? Dunno if that's the right word...I'm ill atm and my brain is baked as fuck atm...
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Well, most people don't know when they have a heart attack until it's escalated to the killy ones...and her dying from one doesn't teach her anything...because she'd be dead...
Not with that attitude, hey-oooo!There's nothing attractive about a ball of lard in little clothing.
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She is fat. She may not like to hear it but it's true.
More importantly she is allegedly an adult. I mean what good is meant to come of this? You got bullied so you go and bully someone 10x harder? All that does is instil more hatred. it does nothing to really educate or change peoples minds - just goes on to further anchor them in their beliefs. Most normal balanced people would've ignored it and moved on with their lives. If you keep stopping to entertain every person who makes a mean comment in life you're not going to get very far.
This just in:
Teenagers have poor judgment. This is why they can't do certain things and only have half the responsibility of everybody else.
Their brains are literally underdeveloped, and some are less or more developed than others. This is exactly how teens talk these days, with every generation the language gets more and more crude because they notice it's how they get a reaction. from us (the older generations)
I don't say I agree with the boys language, but you seem to be expecting too much from a child.
She made it a personal vendetta against a child, for acting how teenagers act. She's the adult and acted just like a teenager.
Stop teenager shaming.
No kidding. A few extra pounds is ok, being a twig is unhealthy too. But that's just disgusting. I would say she looks like she got beaten with the ugly stick. But she looks like the whole ugly forest fell on her.
It depends on what the kid was doing too. I mean, if he was harassing her or inciting violence that's bad. If he just told her she's fat and ugly...well it's true. She's fat and hideously ugly.
She looks as beautiful as the four women she had to eat to get that big. all mashed together into one horrifying mass.
While it may seem contrary to common sense and popular belief, a person who is overweight or obese is not necessarily addicted to food, that is merely an automatic naive assumption.
I also fail to see your point about how she is shoving herself in other people's faces. Those who choose to watch her dance or peruse her social media selfies are doing so because the act is exactly that, their choice. She isn't exactly holding a gun to their heads and telling them that they must look at and fawn over her. So your claim of her "shoving it in other people's faces" is nothing but laughable. Are you so put off by seeing something that you may find repugnant that your automatic self-preserving response is that you were forced to do so?
This woman also seemed to definitely know that she may receive negative responses, but the point is not that if she didn't want to recieve negative comments that she should not post information publicly. The point was that we shouldn't let people who purposefully make negative comments feel comfortable for doing so, and that the online community as a whole shouldn't let trolls and the negative domain of public opinion stand alone as the online public voices that are allowed to be heard. I know I'm all for making people feel bad if they take joy in putting people down online, or in person. If it is okay for them to express their opinions and raise pitchforks, so to speak, to rally against a certain ideal or person that they disagree with then the reverse is easily true. Do everything you can to strip the anonymity from online haters to allow them the opportunity to taste their own medicine.
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As bad as it is to say you are never going to educate people like trolls, online or in real life, or influence them to change their behavior by being nice to them. They may be people at the end of the day, but their personality type feeds their desire to feel better about themselves by putting others down. At least by sending a little potent directed responses to hate back at them you can at least potentially deal a blow that may put them in their place. Afterall, if you just ignore rude behavior today it will still come tomorrow instead of getting rid of it if the offender is really dedicated to harassing you.
I've been told to kill myself just because I misjudged demand and ran out of chili, which resulted in 4 items on a menu getting 86'd for a couple days.
People are cruel. I deserved criticism for failing at my job, of course. And since that job was to serve anyone walking through the door... well, people are cruel.
Thick skin. Need it if you're selling a service.
The kid in the OP was in the wrong, yes. But not because said something, but because of what he said. And some fat chic posting pictures of herself in skimpy clothing or parading down the street half-naked is a reason to say something. People can't un-see that shit.
I hope this is sarcasm. If not, it's probably the stupid comment in this thread. Privacy is not indicative of intent. Most rational people tend to have a preference and expectation of some level of privacy.
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Y'all do realize ... she's in Yellowknife.
Her qualifications for being a burlesque dancer, in that particular area, are 1) Not dead (recently deceased might still be good enough), Female (willing to dress up as a female might pass), 3) Human (Millie the Moose with Photoshop may be enough for cold nights alone), 4) Under the age of 100 (unless lively). Showing leg is a bonus.Yellowknife (English pronunciation: /iɛloʊnaɪf/; French pronunciation: [jelɔnif]; 2011 population: 19,234[3]) is the capital and only city, as well as the largest community in the Northwest Territories (NT or NWT), Canada. It is located on the northern shore of Great Slave Lake, approximately 400 km (250 mi) south of the Arctic Circle, on the west side of Yellowknife Bay near the outlet of the Yellowknife River.
For her circle of friends/fans, that was the environment she expected to be posting in. Then, some teen in London decides he wants to have fun mocking her. Welcome to the Internet, a lack of borders works both ways. She submitted the information the headmaster requested, the headmaster acted according to the appropriate standards and policies.
Now, all of you invoking health, get over to the toast rack thread and apply the same concern. You won't, because health isn't really what you care about. Pictures of a fat woman in the middle of nowhere, that sets you off.
With COVID-19 making its impact on our lives, I have decided that I shall hang in there for my remaining days, skip some meals, try to get children to experiment with making henna patterns on their skin, and plant some trees. You know -- live, fast, dye young, and leave a pretty copse. I feel like I may not have that quite right.
Ok, that is not what I said, and you know it, so don't put words in my mouth.
Humans cannot control WERE they store fat. Some people, by genetics, store more fat around their hips and thighs (pear shape, and 'healthier') rather than around their bellies (apple shape, the unhealthy fat storage). Either way, you are overweight, which mostly is in our control, outside select genetic disorders, which are so rare that it can't be counted into a generalization. Still, an overweight person who has a pear-shape, is overall healthier than a person with an apple-shape, which is somewhat based in genetics, aka out of our control.
This doesn't defend people being fat as a good thing, it is not, but for fucks sake, can you stop just resorting to infantile straw-men? Please?
Holy fuck, it's like you people are looking for a fight.
No but they can control whether they store fat especially in excessive ammounts, no?
Well, this thread went places...
"Shit mom, if she didn't want me to make fun of her weight, she wouldn't be so god damn fat." Not a difficult explanation.
There's a good reason that's the standard advice. Because now that this made the news, the abuse is probably never going to end. This is why social media has things like block buttons. Feeding the trolls just turns it into a feeding frenzy. Fighting the trolls can only, at best, end in a Pyrrhic victory. Escalation might have fucked him up, but the internet will always out-escalate you.
Lets be honest though, the real victims of this tragedy are the people that saw her picture.