Originally Posted by
theWocky
Walk away - if she wants a pause from you, she doesn't want to be with you. It's not fair of her to expect you to wait. It's damn selfish. Be a man and tell her to go to hell.
What does she expect, put your life on hold? Not date anyone, see anyone?
"Pause" means... "I found something better that I want to try out, but if it doesn't work out, I want you to be there - till the next pause"
You hang around and you just waste time - time you could be spending with someone who actually gives a damn about you.
All the people who are saying "give her time" are wrong.
Let me tell you something...
You can make more money, you can, if you have a lot of money gain power and even gain a lot more sex, but time... once it is lost, it is gone. Don't EVER let anyone waste your time.
Make the break. Deal with the pain. Move on. Find someone else. You are weak and setting yourself up for abuse with any other attitude.
Don't love people that make you an "option".