You might be right, or wrong, I have no way of knowing. I stopped treating media reports as "facts" a couple decades ago. I don't think illegals should be intentionally treated like shit, but I also don't think they should be handled like special snowflakes just because they paid thousands to human traffickers.
And the most important thing here is that you could take the exact same photos and videos of crying children calling for dad/mom to come back when they are taken away from their parents who are being detained for a DUI. It happens every day to american citizens. They do dumb shit and their kids suffer from it. How can it only enrage people when it happens to illegal border crossers? Or have I missed the rage at domestic separations?