I didn't even have to name names
. Don't conflate your and the other poster's viewpoints with the fanbase for night elves. It's easy to think many share your opinion and then vaguely say 'night elf fans think X' - similarly I can just say night elf fans do not want (rightfully) a focus on Arcane now that the Highborne have been welcomed back to the society, rather have it be a subplot and a small part.
Not my point nor what I've said - I do not mind additional customization towards Highborne stuff nor do I want their
absence from the story. However, I would love an actual exploration on other sides of night elven history than Highborne (which we got aplenty in Azsuna and overwhelmingly little in Val'sharah in comparison); we're getting Night Warrior stuff now yet I'd not want to forget the Druids/Night Elven nature side. The latter was especially forgotten in BFA, but this is another topic.
Yes. Arcane magic is still distrusted, reaffirmed by Tyrande's distrust towards the Nightborne in
Suramar. I also question why you think their number is greated than the escaped Shen'dralar -- or rather, why you make it seem as if they are numerous. They're a marginalised group, very few in numbers in an already questionably sized population (after all - how much was lost at Teldrassil when somehow night elves can afford to send suicide squads to Nazmir and so on...)
Yes, that is how the Highborne can regain their trust, when they follow the current social system in place, not insert their archaic caste system to replace what's modern and new. When their actions (Teldrassil's mages, for example surely helped) show that their ideals align with the rest of the populace. That does not mean usage of Arcane itself would be adored - and instead at most tolerated, or chastised if overused.
Why would they handle building affairs when the night elves have done just fine until now? Also - what old cities were built by ancient druids?
Arcane Ancient which shows how Arcane perverts Nature by transforming an Ancient into an unexplained and never-again mentioned abomination; rather I'd say the Ancient in Estulan - the only friendly Arcane Ancient (the rest are as expected, aggressive and hostile) IMO is rather put there to show that the Tower of Estulan is a place of Arcane, as it wouldn't be otherwise clear from a distant glance. Nobody is disputing (or shouldn't be) how strong or weak night elves are - Highborne are one of the strongest Arcane users and likely a factor for the distrust.
Moreso whoever posts gigantic walls of texts (at least yours is readable - I'll give you that) about these topics - and rarely are any of the posts different from the other hundred or several threads you and some others have posted. It's a very tired topic by now.
People are free to post whatever and as such I posted my request to tone down your words if you want to have
a discussion - replying to this took ten minutes to even figure out the proper quoting.
I also did not insult or slur, what do you mean? Absurd headcanons should be discouraged, especially from roleplay. You can post your ideals and that's fine, but the topic went from what one wishes from a night elven capitol to this.