You might be reading a bit too much into it. I'd call myself a lazy elitist. I have the skill to do (and have been) a top tier world wide player, but I just no longer want to bother with the loot, the bad lore, the bad rental systems, etc. However, I'd say the poster you replied to isn't deeming you lesser. I'd say a VAST MAJORITY of players want constant gear progression for whatever reason (so they have a mindless goal to chase that keeps them interested instead of having to have a brain or do things just for fun... most online gamers now-a-days seem to just be hunting for a sense of satisfaction and success through little dumb things like gear upgrades since they probably struggle to get that type of satisfaction out of real like.. I digress).
It also happens that the way is currently designed and functions is not to your liking, but is to theirs, so they're saying "instead of demanding my thing that I like change to fit you and turn into something I don't like, how about you go find something else."
I'd say that's normally fine, except wow has been through so many iterations of trying to figure out the loot train and keeping everyone happy that it's no longer something sacred that is set in stone, so they're off-base saying "it's not for you" like it has always been the same and hasn't changed "who it's for" over time.