"Lads! Britain needs you to do your duty and get flirting!"

[Deathquoi]

There's difference between pathetic, and blaming someone else for ones own problems. Which is what people in threads like these like doing. You seemed to be doing just that.

In what way did I blame anyone for my problems? I said that a string of hurtful scenarios left me with diminished self confidence which affected my willingness to put myself out there. Stating cause and effect isn't complaining. I never sat by myself and cried about how nobody loved me. I just stopped trying. It wasn't worth it to me. Maybe it offends you that someone could just not really care about seeking out affection, I don't know. The way you're trying to psychoanalyze me is really weird.

[Deleted]

Because what you said was pretty nonsensical. Different people have had different and changing views thru the entire human history. Trying to point that on just one gender is some biased nonsense, when it applies to everyone equally.

No you just missed the point

[Deleted]

tbh alot of guys dnt wanna date women due to false rape claims i n this stupid imaginary rape culture we live in

[Azadina]

In what way did I blame anyone for my problems? I said that a string of hurtful scenarios left me with diminished self confidence which affected my willingness to put myself out there. Stating cause and effect isn't complaining. I never sat by myself and cried about how nobody loved me. I just stopped trying. It wasn't worth it to me. Maybe it offends you that someone could just not really care about seeking out affection, I don't know. The way you're trying to psychoanalyze me is really weird.

You were complaining about rejections, while mentioning years long relationship, and then you yourself dumping someone. That is what you originally said, so yes, it seemed like you were blaming others for your problems.

But hey, nevermind your own words when they get too inconvenient right?

No you just missed the point

Because there wasn't any. Women is not the name of singular entity.

[Seramore]

Or we are gay!

I considered bringing up homosexuality but it seems like most of you have it together and don't pretend to make the belief that you could "go to jail" for hitting on someone as an excuse to not talk to someone, and also the fact that you don't sit in a bar praying for somebody to hit you while simultaneously refusing to make a move.

[Deleted]

Is she actually complaining about not beeing hit on and that she wants to be able to reject lots of guys becasue it helps her selfesteem?

FUCK YOU for that. I doubt you can be more of a bitch than that.

Men these days are walking on eggshells to prevent sexual harrasment claims because they flirted "aggresively" with someone.

I have always been wondering how men are supposed to inherently know the line between flirting and sexual harrassment.

[Deathquoi]

You were complaining about rejections, while mentioning years long relationship, and then you yourself dumping someone. That is what you originally said, so yes, it seemed like you were blaming others for your problems.

But hey, nevermind your own words when they get too inconvenient right?



Because there wasn't any. Women is not the name of singular entity.

I guess I'll keep this situation in mind next time I see you stirring up shit in another thread. Wouldn't want you to feel compelled to analyze my life without all the details.

[bewbew]

*So men should be forceful?
*But we were just told we should not be forceful rape machines?
*WAIT
*Is this one of those "she says she doesn't want force, but actually likes being taken by storm" ??????
*Holy shit i figured it out guys
*-Goes to jail-*

The people who say men shouldnt be "forceful" are the same ones reading up fanfic porn about dashing broad shouldered tall men taking them against their will.

It's not about being rapey, just knowing what you want and going for it despite resistances.

And knowing how to read the signs that this woman actually wants and is only providing fake resistances.

Which now that I stop to think about it, is kinda hard. And potentially even dangerous.

[apepi]

First off, Denmark government did not make those ads, a travel agency or something did.

Second, UK should combine their efforts with Japan.

[Kathandira]

It's not about being rapey, just knowing what you want and going for it despite resistances.

This sounds incredibly risky. And contradictory.

[Steve French]

Let me see if I get this straight; women are too demanding and picky, because you feel that way, and on top of that you are too lazy and unmotivated to try?

Found the real problem. It's not the women.

You seem to be taking this a bit personal.

[Deathquoi]

You seem to be taking this a bit personal.

She seems to have a real issue with people who are frustrated by dating.

[Kathandira]

To be fair. We are having a discussion about some random persons 'blog post'. There is no research or facts attached to the article. Just someone's opinion based on their own anecdotal evidence.

So it is unfair to really say that this is reflective of the the majority of women feel.

[Azadina]

I guess I'll keep this situation in mind next time I see you stirring up shit in another thread. Wouldn't want you to feel compelled to analyze my life without all the details.

It's just pointless to complain about others taking your words for what it is, when you yourself provide that information.

Imagine me complaining about being rejected if I said I just dumped 5 guys, and no further clarification? Ridiculous right? Well, now you might be getting the point.

You seem to be taking this a bit personal.

Shouldn't I? The woman bashing on this forum is ridiculous. What do you expect, me to laugh along with the absurdities?

She seems to have a real issue with people who are frustrated by dating.

My issue is the woman bashing on this forum. Goes on in every thread like this. I'm not amused.

[bewbew]

This sounds incredibly risky. And contradictory.

Relationships aren't straigth-foward.

Humans may grow to not value something because it was easy.

Humans may want something more just because more resistance was offered. Thus fake resistance exists.

We're not robots that want to take the shortest and most efficient path. I'm sure if we were, our entire mating strategy and sexual dynamics would differ from what they are.

[Deathquoi]

It's just pointless to complain about others taking your words for what it is, when you yourself provide that information.

Imagine me complaining about being rejected if I said I just dumped 5 guys, and no further clarification? Ridiculous right? Well, now you might be getting the point.

Oh my God, ok! Jesus Christ! Next time I will include a detailed autobiography with dates, times, names and quotations so that you may be fully informed!

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Relationships aren't straigth-foward.

Humans may grow to not value something because it was easy.

Humans may want something more just because more resistance was offered. Thus fake resistance exists.

We're not robots that want to take the shortest and most efficient path. I'm sure if we were, our entire mating strategy and sexual dynamics would differ from what they are.

How does that mesh with the notion that consent must always be obtained?

[Deleted]

You seem to be taking this a bit personal.

She takes everything personally.

Moreover, I'm astounded she thinks she is the authority on British gender relations and politics considering that (afaik) she doesn't actually live in Britain.

[Deleted]

Sorry ladies, you just aren't worth the trouble anymore.

[Kapadons]

Pretty women aren't striking out or Not getting talked too. She says she isn't hot or ugly, but if she was even half decent looking, she would get fucked by some lad right now.

[Jotaux]

Oh my God, ok! Jesus Christ! Next time I will include a detailed autobiography with dates, times, names and quotations so that you may be fully informed!

She's certainly not helping combat the women are crazy narrative.