I am not missing point A at all. The women can terminate the abortion wheter she please.
What I am missing is your point B. You very clearly state that the child need both parents and that you care about the well-being of the children and yet you believe the pregnancy should go to term even if one parent (aka 50% of the required parties) is unwilling to fit that role ?
As I said, it's standard cognitive dissonance. When you look at the women you think "Freedom", and then you switch to the man and think "Responsability".
I personally think there should be freedom for both, if the man doesnt want it, there's no reason to chain him to the child or force him to pay child support, worse case scenario, the woman is free to abort if she doesnt want to raise it as a single parent and I dont see any argument that goes against that.
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So you're anti-abortion right ?
Because that's what "responsability" actually is, a principle that have to be respected by both.