If anything you lot are the planned parenthood protesters. "casual" no progress shitters are the westboro baptist church of gamers.
Game: "Group up, do X and recieve Y"
You: "We don't want to group up, or do X, and we'll whine until you give us Y"
Us: "No, fuck off. You don't get Y if you don't group up and do X"
This is how all these threads go, have gone, and will go