Adoption. Remember there is something called adoption. There are many infertile couples who would love to have children, and adoption is their only choice. Also those agencies take care of the mother through the process, typically by giving them an advocate and paying for their travel and medical.
Yes I do value women, they have a say before they engage in the act just like men. A man has no say whether he pays child support or not. Are you telling me that women cannot handle the responsibilities that come along with choosing to have sex?
Both parties agree to have sex, then both parties also agree to the possible outcomes. Simple as that.