When do you know you're getting played? What's the signs?
After an argument with my potential bf, he said he wanted to take things slow. As we're not even together yet, what does that mean?
During the argument I found that he hasn't changed at all and it's been nearly a year. He's the same stubborn man, he doesn't see nor probably doesn't even want to when he's wrong and when he's made a mistake. He barricades himself behind his walls and fires at anything that moves or tries to get through.
It saddens me he's like this because it's always as if he beckons me close enough to eat, like a carnivorous plant. He says he loves me, that he wants a future, but I don't see it anymore?
He says he wants to see that things have changed and improved between us before he get's back with me and his way of solving issues is by complaining about how I solve them and telling me that "you can't just ignore them" - and then doing it himself, justifying it by saying "I don't dwell on things, I move on from them"
... Am I being played?