My friend, the problem is that this collective "we" doesn't exist. What you value in a story isn't necessarily what I would value in a story, nor is it what any number of other people would value either. There is very rarely any consensus on anything from what I can tell. The only thing that people seem to agree on is that they don't like it. But when you try to follow-up this negativity with pointed questions, the answers are so incredibly varied that it's impossible for anybody to provide action on. I'll give you that the developers have done little to assuage the community with their stubborn refusal to make obvious quality of life changes but I think people have a tendency to exaggerate how bad things are in an attempt to garner sympathy from other people with similar opinions.