I guess SAM must be a popular job there. I usually see DNC being in a particularly bad place, MCH not being much better, wide disappointment with DRK, and I've forgotten the others since I don't play them. I ended up switching mains from DNC to RPR because of it. May as well ride the OP train while it lasts. :P
The negative stuff, sure. Unfortunately, there's the 'positive' element where someone is clearly dragging the group down but you can't say anything about it because there's usually at least one enabler in the group. "It's just a game", "you don't pay their sub", etc. That's not including the fandom doing everything they can to shut down any criticisms of the game.You'll never find the toxicity in FF14 doing just regular dungeons or even normal mode raids, unless it's behind peoples back.