Originally Posted by
Hitei
It gets used more and more often, but "I love the game, I just want it to be great!" is a bit of a cheap deflection with regards to OP's point and the larger conversation. Having liked some previous iteration of the game--potentially an iteration that hasn't existed for more than a decade at this point--doesn't mean you don't currently hate the game, and so also doesn't mean you're not actively choosing to play a game you hate and complaining about how much you hate it.
Likewise, "I care about the game" is something close to virtue signaling, what you care about isn't "the game" but rather your enjoyment of the game, that is, whether it appeals directly to you; which is fine or even to be expected really, but it sounds a lot nicer and more altruistic to claim it's about "care for the game" than "what you want. It becomes pretty obvious this is the case when many of the people using the phrase "care about the game" are also the same people who will shit talk anyone enjoying modern iterations of it.
Which isn't to say that there isn't valid criticism (nor did I say this anywhere) but merely to point out that these two sorts of phrases are very often, or even most often, just used to attempt to pass off someone actively choosing to do something they don't like and then complaining about having done it as some sort of noble suffering for the greater good.
At some point you have to take some personal responsibility and realize that spending 10 years playing a game you don't enjoy playing (regardless of it you enjoyed it 15 years ago) is a pretty dumb thing to do--and that obsessing over it not being something you enjoy anymore for years, or even worse, getting angry that other people still enjoy playing it is, at best, immature, and at worst seriously unhealthy.
People really need to learn to let go and find something else the do enjoy.