I'm not a SJW. But I am able to criticise your tone as childish without automatically being assigned to "the other side". I think she's behaving like a
big baby. But her body weight, while being on the pathologically dangerous side, really doesn't have anything to do with the way she behaves. It just makes her look funny. And instead of hitting her where it hurts, with sane arguments that make her realise how childish she is, you just attack her body, giving her new ammunition to further freak out in her irrational rage and hatred.
The key, my friend, is to make them ashamed of how they act. That is the holy grail. Any monkey can make cheap insults about your body, but making you REALISE how childish you are, that's priceless. :P
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Ah, now you're getting it.