Originally Posted by
freddy090909
If the rogue pulled a proper next pack and attempted to bring it to the tank, but the tank just watched as he died because of some stupid "you pull, you tank" mentality, the tank was in the wrong. If the pack the rogue pulled was bad and would slow the group down (e.g. tank went one way rogue ran off another), the tank still should have picked it up, but the rogue was more in the wrong. Stomping your feet and letting someone die for being stupid is certainly not the "adult choice", as a few people have said (Note: I do acknowledge that sometimes it is better to let them die if they pulled a very bad pack and have not brought it close to the group to aggro onto someone else).
In the end, it is the tank's job to hold aggro on mobs, not to pull them. Regardless of who gets the first hit, grabbing aggro is as simple as clicking one thrash in Legion. Personally, when I tank, I welcome people pulling for me - as long as I don't end up overwhelmed (in terms of damage), the mobs get brought somewhat near me, and the pulled pack was logical to pull next, anyway.
Also, obligatory: The rogue should have just tricksed the tank.