you can lay blame on social progress all you want but the fact of the matter that for HUNDREDS OF YEARS that my statement is true.
in victorian times it was 'masculine" to wear pink, high heels, and wear wigs" . what is masculine and what is feminine is arbitrary and decided from generation to generation, its a society construct.
But also in this very topic we discuss men who dont act masculine...because...they arent. There is no reason to believe a man naturally acts 'masculine". That is learned behavior. Men like pink. men screem, men like to cook. men like to take care of babies. men like to gesture with their hands.
If what you mean by masculine is "acting like someone who grows fascial hair, doesnt grow breasts and has a penis and testicles" well thats a pretty arbitrary definition and has nothing to do with the topic at hand.... one cannot 'act" that way.
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No you accused some gay men of intentionally acting feminine, and that most gay men attempt to to do so in order to appease some sort of conspiracy of acceptability via Said liberal media.
People act the way they do. No one thinks "i better not flip my wrist because then my liberal friends will think i'm TO gay"