Both of your points are assumptions.
I don't disagree with what I'm assuming you want in the game, which is PVE content balanced around skill, not gear, without the time wasting mechanics to get to the content.
I don't ever see that happening in WoW, let alone any MMO, since they are traditionally designed to reward people with too much free time and keep people subscribed with carrot on a stick systems.
Maybe if FromSoft makes one.
Until then I just don't see it happening. There is too much money in subs and carrot on a stick systems and giant corporations are the only ones who can afford to make MMO's.
And you could argue Ashes of Creation isn't being made by a giant corporation, but we barely know anything about how that game will really work yet and being a person that has been watching the monthly updates for like 18 months now, there hasn't been anything shown about the systems to suggest it won't also have massive time grinds to do content.